resilience

  • Casa del Phoenix

    The apartment was a clean slate… a blank page on which to write a new life. My interest in design predated this turbulent chapter of my life. Even while living in her house, I had begun carving out a small… Continue reading

    Casa del Phoenix
  • The Ground Beneath

    I arrived beneath grey skies and the oppressively brutal cold of a New England February, outwardly confident, but inside torn apart by trauma, shame and doubt. My hands intermittently shook, not from the cold, but as an outward reflection of… Continue reading

    The Ground Beneath
  • Heavy Baggage

    I have been thinking further about my previous piece, The Skip in the Groove. In that essay, I wrote about how certain triggers can bring one back into the trauma that you think you have been coming to terms with.… Continue reading

    Heavy Baggage
  • Where Healing Begins

    When I wrote the first post on this blog, it was on the occasion of my tenth wedding anniversary. It was a remarkably difficult day. I wrestled with memories of that day, the five years that had preceded it, and… Continue reading

    Where Healing Begins