Rebuilding

  • Casa del Phoenix

    The apartment was a clean slate… a blank page on which to write a new life. My interest in design predated this turbulent chapter of my life. Even while living in her house, I had begun carving out a small… Continue reading

    Casa del Phoenix
  • The Ground Beneath

    I arrived beneath grey skies and the oppressively brutal cold of a New England February, outwardly confident, but inside torn apart by trauma, shame and doubt. My hands intermittently shook, not from the cold, but as an outward reflection of… Continue reading

    The Ground Beneath
  • Phoenix Rising

    How do your respond when faced with seemingly insurmountable odds? How will you handle it when your entire life has been ruptured? When your very identity and all that you known has been taken from you? That was the situation… Continue reading

    Phoenix Rising
  • Where Healing Begins

    When I wrote the first post on this blog, it was on the occasion of my tenth wedding anniversary. It was a remarkably difficult day. I wrestled with memories of that day, the five years that had preceded it, and… Continue reading

    Where Healing Begins
  • The Veil Lifts

    I have been struggling to find the right word to describe something I have been considering for a while. These thoughts began a few weeks ago in my lawyer’s office, as we were discussing strategy for a very complicated and… Continue reading

    The Veil Lifts
  • Independence Day

    I have been dining with strangers, as narrated in Dinner Time. Some have been enjoyable interludes, with little more consequence than pleasant, shared time, and the relaying of anecdotes. Some have resulted in friendship, and others may be of more… Continue reading

    Independence Day
  • Dinner Time

    Over the past few weeks, I have been dipping a few tentative toes into the dating pool. It is not so much about finding another life partner as it is about rebuilding a life that includes other people again. A… Continue reading

    Dinner Time